When Growing Up Means Dreaming Smaller

Dear Readers,

I want to start off by thanking all of you who have been with me during the 3 year journey of this blog. It’s been a really fun ride, but I think it’s time for me to make a big change.

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It’s time for me to say goodbye to Haute Couture Society and the beauty blogger lifestyle. To be frank, it’s become really stressful constantly chasing an audience. I’ve wanted to be a writer ever since I can remember, but blogging has made me focus more on quantity than quality. While I’ve loved trying new products and trends and sharing that experience with all of you, I’ve also been growing in a different direction. I don’t want to look at social media as a job anymore, and I want to reconnect with writing fiction and poetry.

Thank you to all of the companies that have sent me products to try. In my place, I know you’ll find lots of wonderful beauty bloggers that saturate this great community.

I know that this may seem sudden, and it may seen very flaky considering the New Years Resolutions I made just two weeks ago, but sometimes resolutions are just an attempt to trick ourselves into doing something we don’t really want to do. Over the past six months, I’ve been growing a lot as a person and my interests are evolving. Unfortunately, I don’t have unlimited amounts of time and energy, so this is a facet of my life that I need to change. I’ll still be blogging from time to time at my other website, which kind of acts like an online writing resume. Feel free to follow me over there, but just be warned that there will be more horror movie reviews and fewer lipstick reviews in that space.

I’m hoping that this change will feel liberating. I have a full-time job, and it’s been rough trying to blog 3-5 times a week while working and maintaining a social life. Often, I don’t have time to relax in the evening or even work on my fiction.

Well, this open letter is starting to feel self-indulgent, so I’m going to wrap it up with a final thought: I think that maybe (for me) growing up means focusing on smaller, more realistic goals instead of constantly bouncing from dream to dream.

Thanks again to all of you, and farewell for now.

Love Always,



New Year, New Me

I can’t believe it’s already the first day of 2019! I’ll admit that 2018 was a difficult one for me, but I’m so ready to let it go and move forward. So, I wanted to publicly put my resolutions forward in order to be held accountable. 

Resolution 1: Create New Content

I love posting here on Haute Couture Society! I know it’s just a small blog, but it’s meaningful to me and I have enjoyed interacting with readers. So, I resolve to post Monday, Wednesday, and Friday with bonus Sunday vlogs. 

Resolution 2: Focus on Health

My weight has been a big source of unhappiness for me. For as long as I can remember, I’ve had an unhealthy relationship with both food and my body. I really want to focus on being a healthier person in 2019 – eating right, exercising, but also accepting the limitations of my body and not equating self-worth with physical appearance. 

Resolution 3: Finish My Novel

Last year, after finishing my MFA in creative writing, I started a romantic suspense novel. For me, the biggest roadblock to writing is my insecurity. I find myself constantly judging what I’m writing, which leads to a lot of second-guessing. This year, I want to just enjoy the process of writing and hold off on judging until I get to the editing phase. 

What are your resolutions? I’d love to know, so please feel free to share in the comment section! 

Thanks for reading!

-XO Tiffy

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Glitter in the Age of Anxiety

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Some of you may have noticed that I wasn’t around last week. I had no new blog posts and I was mostly absent from social media. I’d like to say that I was fabulously busy with many glamorous things to do, but that would be a lie. The truth is that my anxiety was feeling debilitating and it took all my energy just to get up and go to work. By the time I got home, I attempted to do my homework (poorly) and then I just sat there waiting to fall asleep and try again the next day.

Anxiety comes in many forms. While I have generalized anxiety that can pop up at any time, I’m also a hypochondriac. People joke a lot about hypochondriacs, and I know it seems so irrational to people who don’t suffer from it, but it’s actually pretty overwhelming. I’m hypersensitive to bodily sensations, so a small pain in my side or abdomen or leg (something so insignificant that a “normal” person would be able to just ignore it completely) feels like a catastrophe waiting to happen. I fixate on it until my muscles clench and then the pain is exacerbated. Over the past three weeks, I’ve been absolutely convinced I had a hernia, ovarian cancer, a blood clot, an ulcer, and carpal tunnel. Right now, I’m pain free and not worrying about a specific health concern, but there is still this looming feeling of dread because I know how my mind is so conditioned to overreact and it’s only a matter of time (maybe even just minutes) before I start panicking again.

On the outside, I’ve been as glittery as ever (I even had the opportunity to dress up as a unicorn for a special children’s Halloween event at the library this week!) While there are many perceptive people in my life who could tell that I’m experiencing anxiety, most people I encounter don’t realize that anything is wrong. I think that makeup is a fantastic form of self-expression, but this week, it’s just been my mask. I’ve been trying to project a put-together image to distract from what’s going on inside. It’s fooled a lot of people, but I haven’t tricked my mind into feeling okay just yet.

I know I don’t normally get very personal on this blog, but I felt compelled to be honest about this because I don’t know who is reading this and what you’re going through. Anxiety is a very common thing, but it feels incredibly isolating to those who are going through it. It makes you feel like you’re too abnormal to relate to other people. It keeps you from trying fantastic things. It feels completely insurmountable most of the time, especially when you don’t have a support system. So, I just wanted to say to anyone who is going through something similar that you are not alone. I’m anxious too, and I’m wishing you all the best. You are not damaged beyond repair, and neither am I. Feel free to reach out to me if you’re feeling alone and need someone to talk to. My contact information is right here.

Since it’s taking much longer for me to accomplish everyday tasks, and I still have to work and do schoolwork, I probably won’t be able to continue blogging 5 times a week for a while. So, for now, I’m going to try to blog on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Thank you for your continued patience and understanding.

Thanks for reading!




Birthday and Update

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Hi Everyone!

Thank you all for the amazing support over the past few months. I can’t believe this blog is almost at 500 followers. I’m so appreciative to have engaged readers to make this little space of the internet feel like a community.


Tomorrow is my 26th birthday and I have a week-long break from grad school next week, so there won’t be any new blog posts until the start of October. I just need a little bit of time to relax and recharge, but I’ll be back on October 2nd with more reviews.

I also wanted to share some exciting news too: I’m officially working on my makeup artist certification. I’m maybe a fifth of the way through the program, and I’m taking it slowly since I’m also in grad school and have a full time job, but it’s been a really great experience so far. I’m excited to be able to share more makeup tips and tricks with you!

I hope everyone has a great week!